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OT Best Way to Impress a Man
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Bogart
2006-04-06 21:27:14 UTC
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So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.

Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?

Maybe its sometimes the other way around.

bogey
Xenos3289
2006-04-06 21:36:23 UTC
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
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Just had this conversation with my son P. last weekend.
Women are hitting on him here and then but he is not interested.
To much chemistry and to little interest in the person.
Women are the buyers in my sons case.
He is not selling.
NewMan
2006-04-06 21:49:16 UTC
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Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)

hehehehe
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
Joy
2006-04-07 02:37:49 UTC
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Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
NewMan
2006-04-07 03:42:19 UTC
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Well that is a start! ;)

On Thu, 6 Apr 2006 22:37:49 -0400, "Joy"
Post by Joy
Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 03:44:26 UTC
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Well, i made steak for dinner tonight...
should i run out and pick up some beer?
;-)
Post by NewMan
Well that is a start! ;)
On Thu, 6 Apr 2006 22:37:49 -0400, "Joy"
Post by Joy
Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
Bogart
2006-04-07 09:15:39 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Well, i made steak for dinner tonight...
should i run out and pick up some beer?
;-)
put your coat on before you do.

bogey
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Post by NewMan
Well that is a start! ;)
On Thu, 6 Apr 2006 22:37:49 -0400, "Joy"
Post by Joy
Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
YooperBoyka
2006-04-07 06:49:06 UTC
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Post by Joy
Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
THUD!!!!
Bogart
2006-04-07 09:14:30 UTC
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Post by Joy
Post by NewMan
Well, how about a steak and a b........ back rub! Yeah, that's it! ;)
Well there is that old joke - the way to impress a man is to 1.) show up
naked and 2.) bring beer...
yep, right on.

bogey
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-06 22:45:40 UTC
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
John Smith
2006-04-07 04:34:13 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
This what impresses me:

- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man to
read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Xenos3289
2006-04-07 06:15:08 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man to
read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
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John Smith
2006-04-07 14:23:47 UTC
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Post by Xenos3289
Post by John Smith
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man to
read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
These attributes are very seldom. I once went out on a date where I felt
everything I said was wrong. There was no second date there. I was thinking
to myself that I don't want to be with a person who has emotional issues.
Post by Xenos3289
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
Good :-) Do you find a lot of women with these attributes often?
Post by Xenos3289
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Xenos3289
2006-04-07 18:06:44 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by Xenos3289
Post by John Smith
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on
eggshells.
Post by Xenos3289
Post by John Smith
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man
to
Post by Xenos3289
Post by John Smith
read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
These attributes are very seldom. I once went out on a date where I felt
everything I said was wrong. There was no second date there. I was thinking
to myself that I don't want to be with a person who has emotional issues.
Post by Xenos3289
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
Good :-) Do you find a lot of women with these attributes often?
Unfortunately no.
Post by John Smith
Post by Xenos3289
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!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 18:13:32 UTC
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- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man
to read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
These attributes are very seldom. I once went out on a date where I felt
everything I said was wrong. There was no second date there. I was thinking
to myself that I don't want to be with a person who has emotional issues.
Post by Xenos3289
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
Good :-) Do you find a lot of women with these attributes often?
Unfortunately no.
But you only need to find one and when you do you know she's a keeper!
:-)
Xenos3289
2006-04-07 18:23:11 UTC
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Post by Xenos3289
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- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man
to read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
These attributes are very seldom. I once went out on a date where I felt
everything I said was wrong. There was no second date there. I was thinking
to myself that I don't want to be with a person who has emotional issues.
Post by Xenos3289
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
Good :-) Do you find a lot of women with these attributes often?
Unfortunately no.
But you only need to find one and when you do you know she's a keeper!
:-)
Actually I think it's very easy.
I must just stop feeling sorry for my self when wacko or psychopathic
women don't want me.
Do I want to be with this kind of women?
Hell no.


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!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 19:09:09 UTC
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- Intelligence
- Light personality. Don't like women where you have to walk on eggshells.
- Nice clothes. Not too showy but classy
- Nice smile
- Ability to communicate at a "guy's" level (i.e. not expecting the man
to read her mind)
- Not too harsh. Little or no anger
- Values my time
Are those attributes so seldom that they impress you if you do meet a
woman with those attributes?
These attributes are very seldom. I once went out on a date where I felt
everything I said was wrong. There was no second date there. I was thinking
to myself that I don't want to be with a person who has emotional issues.
Post by Xenos3289
Perhaps.
We seem to be impressed by the same kind of women then.
Good :-) Do you find a lot of women with these attributes often?
Unfortunately no.
But you only need to find one and when you do you know she's a keeper!
:-)
Actually I think it's very easy.
I must just stop feeling sorry for my self when wacko or psychopathic
women don't want me.
Do I want to be with this kind of women?
Hell no.
Sounds like you've got the right idea! :-)
Bill in Co.
2006-04-07 19:57:07 UTC
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Re: OT Best Way to Impress a Man
Re: OT Best Way to Impress a Woman

You guys are totally missing the boat (as in, "Clueless"). The best way
is to just be yourself, because if that doesn't work, there is nothing there
in the other person to even worry about.
John Smith
2006-04-08 01:47:18 UTC
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Post by Bill in Co.
Re: OT Best Way to Impress a Man
Re: OT Best Way to Impress a Woman
You guys are totally missing the boat (as in, "Clueless"). The best way
is to just be yourself, because if that doesn't work, there is nothing there
in the other person to even worry about.
Bill this is so cliché that I can't believe you'd say this. Also, it is
pretty much false. Most women don't know what they want. Most men for that
matter too. There is such a thing as marketing yourself.
Bogart
2006-04-08 08:57:38 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Bill this is so cliché that I can't believe you'd say this. Also, it is
pretty much false. Most women don't know what they want. Most men for that
I don't find this to be true (but it depends what kind of
detail you speak of). Some women don't know what they
want, some do. I prefer those that do.

bogey
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matter too. There is such a thing as marketing yourself.
Lost Lurker
2006-04-08 14:18:54 UTC
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Bill this is so cliché that I can't believe you'd say this. Also, it is
pretty much false. Most women don't know what they want. Most men for that
matter too. There is such a thing as marketing yourself.
LOL! and you're not perpetuating a cliche/myth by stating "most women"
or "most men"?

Yep, I "market" myself, there's me- and there's the door!
and I believe that works from both sides. ;-)

LL
John Riggs
2006-04-08 20:25:31 UTC
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I have to agree.

I have enough faults to make anyone scream for the door, but my finer
qualities are what I hope they stay for. It's a matter of taking the bad
with the good and weighing them for yourself. Trash to one is treasure to
another. It's what you find worth keeping around that is test. You can't
have one without the other, that's just the way it is.
Post by John Smith
Bill this is so cliché that I can't believe you'd say this. Also, it is
pretty much false. Most women don't know what they want. Most men for that
matter too. There is such a thing as marketing yourself.
LOL! and you're not perpetuating a cliche/myth by stating "most women"
or "most men"?

Yep, I "market" myself, there's me- and there's the door!
and I believe that works from both sides. ;-)

LL
YooperBoyka
2006-04-07 06:53:30 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
A solid sense of self,
genuine empathy,
...and a warped sense of humor.
Bogart
2006-04-07 09:37:36 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
A solid sense of self,
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
For me this is a worrying thing because I need to be
able to see the emotions of the person I am with.

bogey
Post by YooperBoyka
genuine empathy,
...and a warped sense of humor.
John Smith
2006-04-07 14:24:32 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
What impresses you?
A solid sense of self,
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
Post by Bogart
For me this is a worrying thing because I need to be
able to see the emotions of the person I am with.
bogey
Post by YooperBoyka
genuine empathy,
...and a warped sense of humor.
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 17:41:37 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.

I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self and
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Xenos3289
2006-04-07 18:32:59 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
The real Xenos lives on Jupiter.
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I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
To find the real Butter within.
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I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self and
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Perhaps that's why we want to find ourselves somewhere out there because
deep inside we know who we are and we rather better wouldn't like to know.


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!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 19:11:38 UTC
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Post by Xenos3289
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
The real Xenos lives on Jupiter.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
To find the real Butter within.
:-) I thought it was Parkay..
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self
and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Perhaps that's why we want to find ourselves somewhere out there because
deep inside we know who we are and we rather better wouldn't like to know.
If we don't like who we are inside we could work on changing that.
I like myself a whole lot better than i have at times in the past.
Xenos3289
2006-04-07 22:29:14 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
The real Xenos lives on Jupiter.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
To find the real Butter within.
:-) I thought it was Parkay..
Post by Xenos3289
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self
and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Perhaps that's why we want to find ourselves somewhere out there because
deep inside we know who we are and we rather better wouldn't like to know.
If we don't like who we are inside we could work on changing that.
I like myself a whole lot better than i have at times in the past.
You can not change the past but you can change your own behavior.
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Bogart
2006-04-07 23:37:58 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
mine is rusty.

bogey
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self and
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
John Smith
2006-04-08 01:49:47 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
Most people are waiting to be lead. This is my experience. Maybe I am a
natural leader, but most people are not leaders.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
Agreed. I don't know what the hell that means either. I am sure it is some
kind of psycho babble to mean "I have found someone else to screw."
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i don't mean
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of self and
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Because most people are stupid. Simple as that.
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:31:37 UTC
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I think the "find myself" axiom began with so-called traditional
women/homemakers who started "changing" back in the 1960s and
1970s....they felt suppressed as wives/mothers and didn't know who they
"were" outside of those roles. It makes sense, to me anyway, looked at
from that angle...some people give themselves so completely to, say, a
sick child, that they really DO lose themselves.
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
Most people are waiting to be lead. This is my experience. Maybe I am a
natural leader, but most people are not leaders.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
Agreed. I don't know what the hell that means either. I am sure it is some
kind of psycho babble to mean "I have found someone else to screw."
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i
don't
Post by John Smith
mean
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense
of self
Post by John Smith
and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Because most people are stupid. Simple as that.
John Smith
2006-04-08 14:13:43 UTC
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Post by wickedways
I think the "find myself" axiom began with so-called traditional
women/homemakers who started "changing" back in the 1960s and
1970s....they felt suppressed as wives/mothers and didn't know who they
"were" outside of those roles. It makes sense, to me anyway, looked at
from that angle...some people give themselves so completely to, say, a
sick child, that they really DO lose themselves.
Yes, we can get carried away doing anything like taking care of a sick
child. Maybe that's what happened to my ex.
Post by wickedways
Post by John Smith
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
Most people are waiting to be lead. This is my experience. Maybe I
am a
Post by John Smith
natural leader, but most people are not leaders.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really
mean?
Post by John Smith
Agreed. I don't know what the hell that means either. I am sure it
is some
Post by John Smith
kind of psycho babble to mean "I have found someone else to screw."
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i
don't
Post by John Smith
mean
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense
of self
Post by John Smith
and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Because most people are stupid. Simple as that.
wickedways
2006-04-08 18:53:42 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Yes, we can get carried away doing anything like taking care of a sick
child. Maybe that's what happened to my ex.
Parenthood is certainly what KOed my own long-term relationship.

and many people in this group know what it's like to lose yourself due to
chronic illness/pain.
In spite of your best efforts, you "become" the affliction...it's rough.
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
Most people are waiting to be lead. This is my experience. Maybe I
am a
Post by John Smith
natural leader, but most people are not leaders.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really
mean?
Post by John Smith
Agreed. I don't know what the hell that means either. I am sure it
is some
Post by John Smith
kind of psycho babble to mean "I have found someone else to screw."
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i
don't
Post by John Smith
mean
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense
of self
Post by John Smith
and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Because most people are stupid. Simple as that.
John Riggs
2006-04-08 20:29:05 UTC
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Remember, that was also the times. Prior to that women were brought up
dreaming of their wedding day, which I have always thought as rather
ridiculous, because there is always a day after.
Post by wickedways
I think the "find myself" axiom began with so-called traditional
women/homemakers who started "changing" back in the 1960s and
1970s....they felt suppressed as wives/mothers and didn't know who they
"were" outside of those roles. It makes sense, to me anyway, looked at
from that angle...some people give themselves so completely to, say, a
sick child, that they really DO lose themselves.
Post by John Smith
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
I've met a few many women who
seem to not know who they are and what they are like.
Maybe they want you to guide them.
like a knight in shining armor? not usually advisable.
Most people are waiting to be lead. This is my experience. Maybe I am a
natural leader, but most people are not leaders.
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I always hear these ppl that leave their spouses to "find myself".
I could never understand that. What does "find myself" really mean?
Agreed. I don't know what the hell that means either. I am sure it is
some
Post by John Smith
kind of psycho babble to mean "I have found someone else to screw."
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
I can't understand how a person can't know who or what they are - i
don't
Post by John Smith
mean
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
like their profession or their name, but don't we all have a sense of
self
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and
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
know deep inside what kind of person we really are??
Because most people are stupid. Simple as that.
Gary Duguay
2006-04-07 01:56:42 UTC
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Ok , I'll play . Let me think ......hmmm.....
A woman who doesnt lie , cheat and steal .
That would be impressive . LoL
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
John Smith
2006-04-07 04:31:14 UTC
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
Post by Bogart
bogey
wickedways
2006-04-07 05:39:38 UTC
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women in your environs, maybe...I always go Dutch.
and not in Holland.
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
Post by Bogart
bogey
Kitty
2006-04-07 05:59:54 UTC
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On Thu, 6 Apr 2006 21:31:14 -0700, "John Smith"
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
For me, it depends on who has the means, and who likes what.
Some men insisted on paying, some liked to go halves, but a fair
amount of time still wanted his knight in shining armor and take me
out.
Most men I know were uncomfortable with me paying, especially often.

With my current bf, I pay most of the time, since he's in a bind for
now, due to the divorce. He accepts it, but it bugs him some, enough
to keep swearing and promising it's not always going to be like that.
I know it'll get better for him, so it's no big deal.
I told him I can't accept him treating me without feeling terribly
guilty, if that means he has to take away from the kids - (mom is sort
of a deadbeat, and he has the kids, and is a sole provider)
John Smith
2006-04-07 14:18:11 UTC
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Post by Kitty
On Thu, 6 Apr 2006 21:31:14 -0700, "John Smith"
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
For me, it depends on who has the means, and who likes what.
Some men insisted on paying, some liked to go halves, but a fair
amount of time still wanted his knight in shining armor and take me
out.
I will pay, but very often women don't even offer to pay or split the bill.
One girl I dated, she was good about paying half or alternating between who
pays. That was as close to free sex as I ever came :-)
Post by Kitty
Most men I know were uncomfortable with me paying, especially often.
I have no problem paying, but most women don't even offer to pay or split
the bill.
Post by Kitty
With my current bf, I pay most of the time, since he's in a bind for
now, due to the divorce. He accepts it, but it bugs him some, enough
to keep swearing and promising it's not always going to be like that.
I know it'll get better for him, so it's no big deal.
I told him I can't accept him treating me without feeling terribly
guilty, if that means he has to take away from the kids - (mom is sort
of a deadbeat, and he has the kids, and is a sole provider)
There are deadbeat moms too?
Lost Lurker
2006-04-07 14:22:34 UTC
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Post by John Smith
There are deadbeat moms too?
This surprises you?

LL
John Smith
2006-04-07 14:45:23 UTC
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Post by Lost Lurker
Post by John Smith
There are deadbeat moms too?
This surprises you?
You apparantly didn't read the sarcasm in the question.
Post by Lost Lurker
LL
Lost Lurker
2006-04-07 15:04:52 UTC
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Post by John Smith
You apparantly didn't read the sarcasm in the question.
<smiles> no, actually, I try very hard to read posts without assuming
emotions to the OP. It's hard enough to read the words and understand
the meaning behind them, without adding my own perceptions.

takes, all kinds, ya know?

;-)
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:25:06 UTC
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It doesn't actually TAKE all kinds, it's just that there ARE all kinds
(no, I didn't originate that)
Post by Lost Lurker
Post by John Smith
You apparantly didn't read the sarcasm in the question.
<smiles> no, actually, I try very hard to read posts without
assuming
Post by Lost Lurker
emotions to the OP. It's hard enough to read the words and
understand
Post by Lost Lurker
the meaning behind them, without adding my own perceptions.
takes, all kinds, ya know?
;-)
Bill in Co.
2006-04-07 19:50:44 UTC
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Post by Lost Lurker
Post by John Smith
There are deadbeat moms too?
This surprises you?
LL
Most of society is deadbeat today. What are you talking about?
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 20:54:52 UTC
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Post by Bill in Co.
Post by Lost Lurker
Post by John Smith
There are deadbeat moms too?
This surprises you?
LL
Most of society is deadbeat today. What are you talking about?
Really? what kind of society do you hang out in?
Bill in Co.
2006-04-07 21:29:21 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bill in Co.
Post by Lost Lurker
Post by John Smith
There are deadbeat moms too?
This surprises you?
LL
Most of society is deadbeat today. What are you talking about?
Really? what kind of society do you hang out in?
The one in my mind. I can see it clearly (as in, Johnny Nash), and the
sun don't shine!
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 06:10:55 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own way on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said "but i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's hard to
know what you're supposed to do.
YooperBoyka
2006-04-07 06:58:04 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own way on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said "but i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's hard to
know what you're supposed to do.
I kind of understand his angle.
I always figure that if *I* invite, it's my treat, unless otherwise
specified.
I do the same way with the guys I hang around.
If I say "come on up for a beer!", I figure I'm buying at least one round.
John Smith
2006-04-07 14:20:15 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own
way
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said
"but
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's
hard
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
to
know what you're supposed to do.
I kind of understand his angle.
I always figure that if *I* invite, it's my treat, unless otherwise
specified.
I do the same way with the guys I hang around.
If I say "come on up for a beer!", I figure I'm buying at least one round.
But the difference is when you buy beer for your buddies, they typically
insist on getting the second round. This has not been my experience with
dating (one exception).
Lost Lurker
2006-04-07 14:27:34 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
I kind of understand his angle.
I always figure that if *I* invite, it's my treat, unless otherwise
specified.
I'm with ya here. If the date is at my invitation, I clearly expect to
pay. And it's known _before_, so there is no misunderstanding/hurt
feelings when the check appears.

<grins> o' course, fishin' and hiking are fairly economical dates, but
I'll usually bring the bait, cooler and picnic. ;-)

LL
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 17:30:57 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own way on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said "but i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's hard to
know what you're supposed to do.
I kind of understand his angle.
I always figure that if *I* invite, it's my treat, unless otherwise
specified.
I do the same way with the guys I hang around.
If I say "come on up for a beer!", I figure I'm buying at least one round.
It was awkward. He was a co-worker and it was hard to tell the difference
between a "date" and a couple co-workers having lunch. This was like
twenty-some years ago and things may have changed a lot since then.
Bogart
2006-04-07 09:31:33 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by John Smith
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
That would imply equality, but women don't want equality when it comes to
paying ;-)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own way on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said "but i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's hard to
know what you're supposed to do.
A few women expect you as the man to pay (if its a first and
only date that's a bit "ouch"). I like relaationships that start
in a very slow way, maybe with a coffee or on the Internet because
by the time you get a meal date you might know whether there will be
a second date and there is more sharing already. Well I also like
to get on with things (like all men! - come naked and bring beer)
but if you had some conversations
first you know if there is interest or if there are showstoppers.
So if you know you are going to have a few dates it doesn't matter
who pays because next time the other person can. Or there are other
ways - for example one lady drove 100 miles to meet me so I felt
it reasonable to pay (she had her petrol costs). Give and take is
nice. I feel that expecting to pay as a man is chauvinist and
disrespectful (to the woman) - we are not in a world where
women don't have jobs any more.

Increasingly these days I seem to develop friendships
rather than dating and a friendship where one person does
all the paying is not a friendship. Maybe one day a friendship
will bowl me over but I doubt it.

bogey
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 17:37:37 UTC
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Post by Bogart
A few women expect you as the man to pay (if its a first and
only date that's a bit "ouch").
Just pondering...
I wonder if when a man pays for an expensive date then gets no sex that
evening it feels anything like when a woman shares her body with a man then
finds he's not interested in a further relationship. Neither promised
anything, it was just ASSumed... :-)

Could an expensive no-sex first-date be equated somehow to a one-night-stand?
Both seem to be giving something of value and assuming something will be
returned. Why not the guy ask her ahead of time if she'll put out if he
spends money, and she asks him ahead of time if he'll marry her if she puts
out? :-) (betcha they'd both say no!) People would not be likely to extend
credit to a person they hardly know in other areas, so why in dating i wonder?
Bogart
2006-04-07 23:37:14 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Bogart
A few women expect you as the man to pay (if its a first and
only date that's a bit "ouch").
Just pondering...
I wonder if when a man pays for an expensive date then gets no sex that
evening it feels anything like when a woman shares her body with a man then
finds he's not interested in a further relationship. Neither promised
anything, it was just ASSumed... :-)
I have never expected sex on a first date and never had sex on
a first date. The earliest was third date. But now I would wait
much longer - in fact I intend to not have sex unless I know it
promises to be a long term relationship. The problem with having
sex earlier is that it makes the relationship closer and then
if its one that won't turn into a LTR you end up hurting someone.

I've had my fun, I'll save if for the special one now.

I went out with one woman who clearly expected me to pay
and also clearly saw it as an only date. I felt like a meal
ticket. I wouldn't have wanted sex with her - just a reasonable
offer to share the cost.

bogey
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Could an expensive no-sex first-date be equated somehow to a one-night-stand?
Both seem to be giving something of value and assuming something will be
returned. Why not the guy ask her ahead of time if she'll put out if he
spends money, and she asks him ahead of time if he'll marry her if she puts
out? :-) (betcha they'd both say no!) People would not be likely to extend
credit to a person they hardly know in other areas, so why in dating i wonder?
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:28:22 UTC
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Post by Bogart
I have never expected sex on a first date and never had sex on
a first date. The earliest was third date. But now I would wait
much longer - in fact I intend to not have sex unless I know it
promises to be a long term relationship. The problem with having
sex earlier is that it makes the relationship closer and then
if its one that won't turn into a LTR you end up hurting someone.
this is an interesting perspective, but I was struck by two
thoughts....if you wait until the 16th date to sleep together and things
still don't work out, someone gets hurt (yes, I know what you mean,
which is that the odds are better later)...heck, someone gets hurt
pretty much ANY time something doesn't work out...the other thought I
had was how much it can hurt even if you haven't had sex....you can get
to know someone well and feel really connected....heck, I've felt very
sad about endings even if I never MET the person, even if we just
corresponded, or talked on the phone (due to distance)....I've had
Internet "breakups" that not only involved no sex but no same-room
contact! of course it's worse when there's been intimacy....I find those
are the hardest memories to shake, weeks and months later....the smell
and feel of the person...

agreed on the shared expense thing...I dated one guy who said "I never
let the woman pay" and it was clear we were NOT compatible! He was old
school. He called it "traditional" I just saw it as...icky.
Bogart
2006-04-08 09:07:42 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
I have never expected sex on a first date and never had sex on
a first date. The earliest was third date. But now I would wait
much longer - in fact I intend to not have sex unless I know it
promises to be a long term relationship. The problem with having
sex earlier is that it makes the relationship closer and then
if its one that won't turn into a LTR you end up hurting someone.
this is an interesting perspective, but I was struck by two
thoughts....if you wait until the 16th date to sleep together and things
Its not to wait until the 16th date or any number, its to wait until
its the right time. The arguments about whenever it happens it will
hurt someone when you break apply in a different way - at my age (53)
I may or may not have a LTR again but if I do there
will only be one because there is not time for more. If there
is more they will be S not L.

bogey
Post by wickedways
still don't work out, someone gets hurt (yes, I know what you mean,
which is that the odds are better later)...heck, someone gets hurt
pretty much ANY time something doesn't work out...the other thought I
had was how much it can hurt even if you haven't had sex....you can get
to know someone well and feel really connected....heck, I've felt very
sad about endings even if I never MET the person, even if we just
corresponded, or talked on the phone (due to distance)....I've had
Internet "breakups" that not only involved no sex but no same-room
contact! of course it's worse when there's been intimacy....I find those
are the hardest memories to shake, weeks and months later....the smell
and feel of the person...
agreed on the shared expense thing...I dated one guy who said "I never
let the woman pay" and it was clear we were NOT compatible! He was old
school. He called it "traditional" I just saw it as...icky.
wickedways
2006-04-08 18:57:33 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Its not to wait until the 16th date or any number, its to wait until
its the right time. The arguments about whenever it happens it will
hurt someone when you break apply in a different way - at my age (53)
I may or may not have a LTR again but if I do there
will only be one because there is not time for more. If there
is more they will be S not L.
this brings up a question I'd like to put to the group: what constitutes
"long term"? When I first was single again, I was shocked to learn that some
guys considered a year to be long term...huh? I dated a guy who said he had
many "girlfriends" but it turns out these were simply women he'd slept
with...some of them 2-3 times, some of them for a year. but "girlfriends?" I
wouldn't have called them that! For me long term would probably
be...hmmmm...let me think....five years?

there might be more time than you think....I know a couple who got married
in their mid-70s and they've been married 14 years now....that's pretty long
term....

I hope you find one, Bogey, or it finds you....I was thinking yesterday
that I was lucky to have had ONE good long relationship, and I shouldn't
expect another.
Post by Bogart
bogey
Post by wickedways
still don't work out, someone gets hurt (yes, I know what you mean,
which is that the odds are better later)...heck, someone gets hurt
pretty much ANY time something doesn't work out...the other thought I
had was how much it can hurt even if you haven't had sex....you can get
to know someone well and feel really connected....heck, I've felt very
sad about endings even if I never MET the person, even if we just
corresponded, or talked on the phone (due to distance)....I've had
Internet "breakups" that not only involved no sex but no same-room
contact! of course it's worse when there's been intimacy....I find those
are the hardest memories to shake, weeks and months later....the smell
and feel of the person...
agreed on the shared expense thing...I dated one guy who said "I never
let the woman pay" and it was clear we were NOT compatible! He was old
school. He called it "traditional" I just saw it as...icky.
BP
2006-04-07 21:15:52 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
People i've dated in the past were offended when i tried to pay my own way on
a date. I remember a lunch date where the guy looked so sad, he said "but i
asked you to go with me" and that was the first and last date. It's hard to
know what you're supposed to do.
I think that is the key, what that guy said to you: "but I asked you
to go with me." If I ask a woman out on a date, I expect to pay. If a
woman asks me out, I'd expect her to pay (this hasn't happened lately,
but I remember in college girls asking me out to a formal hosted by
their dorm or sorority, and in those cases they paid). (Wick may like
going dutch, but that has always seemed kinda weird to me - especially
for a first date, it seems like the person who initiated things ought
to pick up the tab.)

Once it goes beyond a few dates and becomes a relationship, where
neither one is really "asking out" the other, it gets less obvious who
should pay, but by that point the parties should be able to work it
out by agreement.

BP


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wickedways
2006-04-07 05:39:39 UTC
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
because it was posted by a man, and (chiefly) because it was quoting a
study about what impressed women. that's all.

I know that female bower birds like guys who build really impressive
nests.
Post by Bogart
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
Bogart
2006-04-07 09:20:11 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
because it was posted by a man, and (chiefly) because it was quoting a
study about what impressed women. that's all.
that's not all - it also reflected a particular way of
thinking about it.

bogey
Post by wickedways
I know that female bower birds like guys who build really impressive
nests.
Post by Bogart
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
Bill in Co.
2006-04-07 19:48:19 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
because it was posted by a man, and (chiefly) because it was quoting a
study about what impressed women. that's all.
that's not all - it also reflected a particular way of
thinking about it.
bogey
Yup. It really depends on the man. We don't all fit the stereotype -
trust me.
Post by Bogart
Post by wickedways
I know that female bower birds like guys who build really impressive
nests.
Post by Bogart
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
Kitty
2006-04-07 05:51:26 UTC
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
I was under the impression most guys are pretty easily impressed! ;)
Lost Lurker
2006-04-07 13:11:48 UTC
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Post by Kitty
I was under the impression most guys are pretty easily impressed! ;)
The men in my life are simple, and I enjoy them like this! No drama and
baggage.

It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.

Ballgames
Beer
Boobs

(in no particular order)

simplified,

LL
a woman grinning ;-)
John Smith
2006-04-07 14:25:19 UTC
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Post by Lost Lurker
Post by Kitty
I was under the impression most guys are pretty easily impressed! ;)
The men in my life are simple, and I enjoy them like this! No drama and
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
Damn! They are easy.
Post by Lost Lurker
(in no particular order)
simplified,
LL
a woman grinning ;-)
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 17:42:31 UTC
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Post by Lost Lurker
Post by Kitty
I was under the impression most guys are pretty easily impressed! ;)
The men in my life are simple, and I enjoy them like this! No drama and
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
(in no particular order)
simplified,
LL
a woman grinning ;-)
add one more "B" to that last.... ;-)
Bogart
2006-04-07 23:39:42 UTC
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Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by Lost Lurker
Post by Kitty
I was under the impression most guys are pretty easily impressed! ;)
The men in my life are simple, and I enjoy them like this! No drama and
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
(in no particular order)
simplified,
LL
a woman grinning ;-)
add one more "B" to that last.... ;-)
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.

bogey
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-07 23:51:33 UTC
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Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
or silicone...
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:21:50 UTC
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Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the
B-Man.....but at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the
fat) ducts and nerves and....
Post by Bogart
bogey
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 06:08:01 UTC
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Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a scientist
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat) ducts
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
Bogart
2006-04-08 09:09:42 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a scientist
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat) ducts
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
lactose is for babies.

bogey
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 18:42:50 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a scientist
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat) ducts
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
Bogart
2006-04-08 19:11:36 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a scientist
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat) ducts
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
well if it turns you on .....

bogey
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 19:28:01 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst
the fat) ducts and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
well if it turns you on .....
Bogey,...I drink milk,...*lots* of it.
...along with eating butter, cheese, sour cream, ice cream,...
Lactose is only "for babies" when the society determines it.
This is not the case in the society I live in.
If you are going to determine that I'm an infant for craving lactose,
I figure I might as well dress the part.
Bogart
2006-04-08 21:11:56 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst
the fat) ducts and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
well if it turns you on .....
Bogey,...I drink milk,...*lots* of it.
...along with eating butter, cheese, sour cream, ice cream,...
Lactose is only "for babies" when the society determines it.
This is not the case in the society I live in.
If you are going to determine that I'm an infant for craving lactose,
I figure I might as well dress the part.
No problem.

From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lactose_intolerance

Lactose intolerance by group
Human groups Individuals-Examined Percent-Intolerant Allele-Frequency
Swedish NA 2% 0.14
Europeans in Australia 160 4% 0.20
Swiss NA 10% 0.316
American Caucasians 245 12% 0.346
Finns 134 18% 0.424
African Tutsi NA 20% 0.447
African Fulani NA 23% 0.48
African Americans 20 75% 0.87
Australian Aborigines 44 85% 0.922
African Bantu 59 89% 0.943
Chinese 71 93% 0.964
Thais 134 98% 0.99
American Indians 24 100% 1.00

See - most of the world are lactose-intolerant (notice
africans, chinese etc.).

Note also:

The normal mammalian condition is for the young to lose the ability to
digest effectively milk sugar (lactose) at the end of the weaning period
(a species-specific length of time usually equal to roughly 3% of
lifespan). In humans, lactase production usually drops about 90% during
the first four years of life, though the exact drop and age varies
widely. However, certain human populations have undergone a mutation on
chromosome 2 which results in a bypass of the normal shutdown in lactase
production, allowing members of these groups to continue consumption of
fresh milk and fresh milk products throughout their lives.

There is some debate on exactly where and when the mutation(s) occurred,
some arguing for separate mutation events in Sweden (which has one of
the lowest levels of lactose intolerance in the world) and the Arabian
Peninsula near 4000 BC which converged as they spread, while others
argue for a single event in the Middle East at about 4500 BC which
radiated from there. Some sources suggest a third and more recent
mutation in the East African Tutsi. Whatever the precise origin in time
and place, most modern western Eurasians and people of western Eurasian
ancestry show the effects of this mutation (that is, they are able to
safely consume milk products all their lives) while most modern eastern
Eurasians, sub-Saharan Africans and native peoples of the Americas and
Pacific Islands do not (making them lactose intolerant as adults)[1].

bogey
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 22:24:03 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the
B-Man.....but at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst
the fat) ducts and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
well if it turns you on .....
Bogey,...I drink milk,...*lots* of it.
...along with eating butter, cheese, sour cream, ice cream,...
Lactose is only "for babies" when the society determines it.
This is not the case in the society I live in.
If you are going to determine that I'm an infant for craving lactose,
I figure I might as well dress the part.
No problem.
From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lactose_intolerance
Lactose intolerance by group
Human groups Individuals-Examined Percent-Intolerant Allele-Frequency
Swedish NA 2% 0.14
Europeans in Australia 160 4% 0.20
Swiss NA 10% 0.316
American Caucasians 245 12% 0.346
Finns 134 18% 0.424
African Tutsi NA 20% 0.447
African Fulani NA 23% 0.48
African Americans 20 75% 0.87
Australian Aborigines 44 85% 0.922
African Bantu 59 89% 0.943
Chinese 71 93% 0.964
Thais 134 98% 0.99
American Indians 24 100% 1.00
See - most of the world are lactose-intolerant (notice
africans, chinese etc.).
The normal mammalian condition is for the young to lose the ability to
digest effectively milk sugar (lactose) at the end of the weaning period
(a species-specific length of time usually equal to roughly 3% of
lifespan). In humans, lactase production usually drops about 90% during
the first four years of life, though the exact drop and age varies widely.
However, certain human populations have undergone a mutation on chromosome
2 which results in a bypass of the normal shutdown in lactase production,
allowing members of these groups to continue consumption of fresh milk and
fresh milk products throughout their lives.
There is some debate on exactly where and when the mutation(s) occurred,
some arguing for separate mutation events in Sweden (which has one of the
lowest levels of lactose intolerance in the world) and the Arabian
Peninsula near 4000 BC which converged as they spread, while others argue
for a single event in the Middle East at about 4500 BC which radiated from
there. Some sources suggest a third and more recent mutation in the East
African Tutsi. Whatever the precise origin in time and place, most modern
western Eurasians and people of western Eurasian ancestry show the effects
of this mutation (that is, they are able to safely consume milk products
all their lives) while most modern eastern Eurasians, sub-Saharan Africans
and native peoples of the Americas and Pacific Islands do not (making them
lactose intolerant as adults)[1].
I'm not a believer that genetics are firmly set at birth.
They are more like a script that has many potential outcomes.
Y'know,...like those "novels" that allow you to make your own
decision about what happens, then you turn to the appropriate page.
Environmental factors can switch many genes on or off
in innumerable ways.
Even the presence or absence of various intestinal fauna
(and there are myriad of them that have never been studied)
can vastly change the digestion abilities of people, and/or
their general health.

Bogey,...I have a great deal of "First American" genetics
in my DNA, yet I am not lactose intolerant.
(nevermind that 24 subjects is a small enough sample
to make the results meaningless)
I know a great many African Americans who are also not
intolerant. 75% seems way high to me.
I think it may be more likely that ingesting lactose throughout
my life allowed me to continue, as it *may* have, had some of those
who are intolerant not stopped.
It may indeed be that any genes I inherited from my Northern European
ancestors passed on a tolerance, but I honestly doubt that
is the only factor

<quoted from the same article you posted, emphasis mine>

"There have been some cases where the intolerance has somehow diminished
with time; THIS HAS NOT BEEN STUDIED SCIENTIFICALLY, however, and whether it
is a case of desensitization remains to be seen. It should be remembered
that lactose intolerance is not a binary (all-or-nothing) condition: the
reduction in lactase production, and hence, amount of lactose that can be
tolerated VARIES FROM PERSON TO PERSON, and may change with age."

I read an interesting article a while back about the decline
of helicobacter pylori in industrialized societies and the genetic
differences between the organisms found in various parts of the globe.
This organism can cause inflammation in the stomach and/or
duodenum, yet seems to provide protection to the esophagus.
Have you noticed the increased incidence of "GERD"?
Maybe one more case of "unintended consequences" from
trying to protect ourselves from "bacteria"?

For me, knowledge gained last week is fast becoming
"old news" as we learn more faster than we did before.
Simple explanations no longer work.
It's a cool time to be alive, I tell ya.

Even if I'm way off base, I stand by my original statement that breasts
contain milk.
:^)
Bogart
2006-04-08 23:01:00 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the
B-Man.....but at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst
the fat) ducts and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
*I'm* not!!!
Post by Bogart
lactose is for babies.
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
well if it turns you on .....
Bogey,...I drink milk,...*lots* of it.
...along with eating butter, cheese, sour cream, ice cream,...
Lactose is only "for babies" when the society determines it.
This is not the case in the society I live in.
If you are going to determine that I'm an infant for craving lactose,
I figure I might as well dress the part.
No problem.
From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lactose_intolerance
Lactose intolerance by group
Human groups Individuals-Examined Percent-Intolerant Allele-Frequency
Swedish NA 2% 0.14
Europeans in Australia 160 4% 0.20
Swiss NA 10% 0.316
American Caucasians 245 12% 0.346
Finns 134 18% 0.424
African Tutsi NA 20% 0.447
African Fulani NA 23% 0.48
African Americans 20 75% 0.87
Australian Aborigines 44 85% 0.922
African Bantu 59 89% 0.943
Chinese 71 93% 0.964
Thais 134 98% 0.99
American Indians 24 100% 1.00
See - most of the world are lactose-intolerant (notice
africans, chinese etc.).
The normal mammalian condition is for the young to lose the ability to
digest effectively milk sugar (lactose) at the end of the weaning period
(a species-specific length of time usually equal to roughly 3% of
lifespan). In humans, lactase production usually drops about 90% during
the first four years of life, though the exact drop and age varies widely.
However, certain human populations have undergone a mutation on chromosome
2 which results in a bypass of the normal shutdown in lactase production,
allowing members of these groups to continue consumption of fresh milk and
fresh milk products throughout their lives.
There is some debate on exactly where and when the mutation(s) occurred,
some arguing for separate mutation events in Sweden (which has one of the
lowest levels of lactose intolerance in the world) and the Arabian
Peninsula near 4000 BC which converged as they spread, while others argue
for a single event in the Middle East at about 4500 BC which radiated from
there. Some sources suggest a third and more recent mutation in the East
African Tutsi. Whatever the precise origin in time and place, most modern
western Eurasians and people of western Eurasian ancestry show the effects
of this mutation (that is, they are able to safely consume milk products
all their lives) while most modern eastern Eurasians, sub-Saharan Africans
and native peoples of the Americas and Pacific Islands do not (making them
lactose intolerant as adults)[1].
I'm not a believer that genetics are firmly set at birth.
They are more like a script that has many potential outcomes.
Y'know,...like those "novels" that allow you to make your own
decision about what happens, then you turn to the appropriate page.
Environmental factors can switch many genes on or off
in innumerable ways.
Even the presence or absence of various intestinal fauna
(and there are myriad of them that have never been studied)
can vastly change the digestion abilities of people, and/or
their general health.
Bogey,...I have a great deal of "First American" genetics
in my DNA, yet I am not lactose intolerant.
(nevermind that 24 subjects is a small enough sample
to make the results meaningless)
I know a great many African Americans who are also not
intolerant. 75% seems way high to me.
I think it may be more likely that ingesting lactose throughout
my life allowed me to continue, as it *may* have, had some of those
who are intolerant not stopped.
It may indeed be that any genes I inherited from my Northern European
ancestors passed on a tolerance, but I honestly doubt that
is the only factor
<quoted from the same article you posted, emphasis mine>
"There have been some cases where the intolerance has somehow diminished
with time; THIS HAS NOT BEEN STUDIED SCIENTIFICALLY, however, and whether it
is a case of desensitization remains to be seen. It should be remembered
that lactose intolerance is not a binary (all-or-nothing) condition: the
reduction in lactase production, and hence, amount of lactose that can be
tolerated VARIES FROM PERSON TO PERSON, and may change with age."
I read an interesting article a while back about the decline
of helicobacter pylori in industrialized societies and the genetic
differences between the organisms found in various parts of the globe.
This organism can cause inflammation in the stomach and/or
duodenum, yet seems to provide protection to the esophagus.
Have you noticed the increased incidence of "GERD"?
Maybe one more case of "unintended consequences" from
trying to protect ourselves from "bacteria"?
For me, knowledge gained last week is fast becoming
"old news" as we learn more faster than we did before.
Simple explanations no longer work.
It's a cool time to be alive, I tell ya.
Even if I'm way off base, I stand by my original statement that breasts
contain milk.
:^)
yes - intended for feeding infants.

bogey (who for reasons unknown has developed lactose intolerance
at 53).
John Smith
2006-04-08 23:40:05 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Even if I'm way off base, I stand by my original statement that breasts
contain milk.
:^)
And that's why we love breasts :-). I too am a milk lover.
Post by Bogart
yes - intended for feeding infants.
bogey (who for reasons unknown has developed lactose intolerance
at 53).
My mother had this happen, but a few weeks on Lactaid fixed it. I read
somewhere that if you stop drinking milk, you will become lactose
intolerant. The Asian cultures where after a certain age the children are
not given milk has more lactose intolerance than Northern Europe where milk
is part of an adult diet.
wickedways
2006-04-09 01:32:16 UTC
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Post by John Smith
My mother had this happen, but a few weeks on Lactaid fixed it. I read
somewhere that if you stop drinking milk, you will become lactose
intolerant.
you will also eliminate one of the "needs" for cow husbandry....humans
don't need cow's milk....

The Asian cultures where after a certain age the children are
Post by John Smith
not given milk has more lactose intolerance than Northern Europe where milk
is part of an adult diet.
those children have lower incidence of many cancers as well....

(musings of "soy cheese" lover!)
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 23:50:09 UTC
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Post by Bogart
bogey (who for reasons unknown has developed lactose intolerance
at 53).
Wow, sorry to hear it.
I'd have tough time with that.
Not as tough as I'd have with glutin intolerance though.
John Smith
2006-04-08 23:37:03 UTC
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Post by YooperBoyka
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
Hmmm, that might explain your "Junior" level emotional outbursts.

JS
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 23:54:52 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by YooperBoyka
Well,...wrap me in a diaper and call me Junior then.
Hmmm, that might explain your "Junior" level emotional outbursts.
<shakes head>
You have no idea how infantile you look do you?
wickedways
2006-04-08 18:58:54 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a scientist
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat) ducts
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
they are? Isn't that cow's milk you're talking about? Most adults are
allergic to human breastmilk? Where are the data on that?
Bogart
2006-04-08 19:14:03 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
at least he allowed the pleasure part
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the fat)
ducts
Post by Bogart
Post by YooperBoyka
Post by wickedways
and nerves and....
Milk!!!!
but the majority of adults in the world are lactose-intolerant.
they are? Isn't that cow's milk you're talking about? Most adults are
allergic to human breastmilk? Where are the data on that?
Its easy to find out there on the web, look it up.

Young children are not intolerant of it. Sorry but
human, bovine, whatever - lactose in it all.

bogey
John Smith
2006-04-08 23:42:12 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Most adults are
allergic to human breastmilk?
Pardon me, but why are adults drinking human breastmilk? Isn't that a bit
gross. What kind of an adult would want to steal an infants God given
milk?????
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-09 01:11:29 UTC
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Post by John Smith
Post by wickedways
Most adults are
allergic to human breastmilk?
Pardon me, but why are adults drinking human breastmilk? Isn't that a bit
gross. What kind of an adult would want to steal an infants God given
milk?????
sometimese there's more than enough for the baby!

i used to pour the excess down the drain and yet my kids' STILL had plenty to
get plump (as i lost weight). i may have been small but i probably could have
opened my own dairy.
Bogart
2006-04-08 09:01:46 UTC
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Post by Bogart
I'm not interested in Ballgames (of the kind that can be
shown on daytime tv) nor beer. Boobs aren't that interesting
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the B-Man.....but
at least he allowed the pleasure part
why ouch ? I'm interested is *all* parts of women's bodies,
particularly the parts that they like being pleasured.
You are not an object consisting of boobs and other places.
One has to respond to the charmer - on their own charms are
just biology. I hope you can see my point.

bogey
;-).....and good for you, Bogey, on the other two....but is a
scientist going to weigh in on the fact that there are also (amidst the
fat) ducts and nerves and....
Post by Bogart
bogey
wickedways
2006-04-08 19:00:10 UTC
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Post by Bogart
Post by wickedways
Post by Bogart
either unless its pleasure for the lady. They're only lumps
of fat.
ouch! Secondary sexual characteristics go to waste on the
B-Man.....but
Post by Bogart
Post by wickedways
at least he allowed the pleasure part
why ouch ?
I just meant that all we women have those things, and "lumps of fat" isn't
particularly complimentary! ;-) I wasn't being critical, was just reacting
the way a guy might if someone said that testicles were just "dangling
blobs" or something....

I'm interested is *all* parts of women's bodies,
Post by Bogart
particularly the parts that they like being pleasured.
You are not an object consisting of boobs and other places.
One has to respond to the charmer - on their own charms are
just biology. I hope you can see my point.
I do. It's just that I love tits! LOL!
Post by Bogart
bogey
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:21:49 UTC
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Post by Lost Lurker
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
the guys I know all seem to be leg men. not sure what other Ls I can
come up with...not Liquor, definitely...oh...maybe Lust? For your list,
you could add "big." Big anything....big cars, big bank balances, big
food, big big...
Post by Lost Lurker
(in no particular order)
simplified,
LL
a woman grinning ;-)
Lost Lurker
2006-04-08 14:10:10 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Post by Lost Lurker
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
the guys I know all seem to be leg men. not sure what other Ls I can
come up with...not Liquor, definitely...oh...maybe Lust? For your list,
you could add "big." Big anything....big cars, big bank balances, big
food, big big...
well, after last nights supper, I realized I could add Beef to my list.
Now, how do I add NASCAR to the list?

;-)

LL
John Smith
2006-04-08 14:41:22 UTC
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Post by wickedways
Post by Lost Lurker
baggage.
It seems they are easily amused and satisfied by the 3 Bs.
Ballgames
Beer
Boobs
the guys I know all seem to be leg men. not sure what other Ls I can
come up with...not Liquor, definitely...oh...maybe Lust? For your list,
you could add "big." Big anything....big cars, big bank balances, big
food, big big...
well, after last nights supper, I realized I could add Beef to my list.
What kind of beef? Where did you go to dinner?
Post by Lost Lurker
Now, how do I add NASCAR to the list?
I suppose Indy 500 is too boring for you.
Post by Lost Lurker
;-)
LL
t@home
2006-04-08 00:44:05 UTC
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In the animal kingdom, the males go through all sorts of rituals to
impress a female enough to mate with him. Sadly, humans have sunk so
low that it isn't necessary for a man to do much to get a woman into
bed these days.
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
wickedways
2006-04-08 05:34:53 UTC
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Post by ***@home
In the animal kingdom, the males go through all sorts of rituals to
impress a female enough to mate with him. Sadly, humans have sunk so
low that it isn't necessary for a man to do much to get a woman into
bed these days.
"get a woman into bed"? Quaint expression! I'm looking to tackle me a
Cro-Magnon myself....knock him down and climb on top....
Post by ***@home
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
t@home
2006-04-08 17:28:49 UTC
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My point is proven.
Post by wickedways
Post by ***@home
In the animal kingdom, the males go through all sorts of rituals to
impress a female enough to mate with him. Sadly, humans have sunk
so
Post by ***@home
low that it isn't necessary for a man to do much to get a woman into
bed these days.
"get a woman into bed"? Quaint expression! I'm looking to tackle me a
Cro-Magnon myself....knock him down and climb on top....
Post by ***@home
Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
John Riggs
2006-04-08 20:38:32 UTC
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Where does one apply for this job?
Post by wickedways
"get a woman into bed"? Quaint expression! I'm looking to tackle me a
Cro-Magnon myself....knock him down and climb on top....
wickedways
2006-04-08 20:57:54 UTC
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LOL..what I'm wondering is where are the guys who like women who....oh
never mind...
Post by John Riggs
Where does one apply for this job?
Post by wickedways
"get a woman into bed"? Quaint expression! I'm looking to tackle me a
Cro-Magnon myself....knock him down and climb on top....
!!.com (_mL_)
2006-04-08 21:55:38 UTC
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Post by wickedways
LOL..what I'm wondering is where are the guys who like women who....oh
never mind...
women who WHAT? You said just enough to get my interest... :-)
Casey
2006-04-08 22:26:01 UTC
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_mL_ said
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by wickedways
LOL..what I'm wondering is where are the guys who like women who....oh
never mind...
women who WHAT? You said just enough to get my interest... :-)
Yes, inquiring minds (well, at least two of them) want to know.


Casey
YooperBoyka
2006-04-08 22:33:30 UTC
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_mL_ said
Post by !!.com (_mL_)
Post by wickedways
LOL..what I'm wondering is where are the guys who like women who....oh
never mind...
women who WHAT? You said just enough to get my interest... :-)
Yes, inquiring minds (well, at least two of them) want to know.
Sitting here waving my arm wildly didn't work, did it?
Bogart
2006-04-08 08:56:03 UTC
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Post by ***@home
In the animal kingdom, the males go through all sorts of rituals to
impress a female enough to mate with him. Sadly, humans have sunk so
Sometimes its one way around and sometimes the other. One
cannot generalise about behaviour of non-human animals and gender.
Post by ***@home
low that it isn't necessary for a man to do much to get a woman into
bed these days.
I think you have a log in your eye.

bogey
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Post by Bogart
So why is that thread about the best way to impress a woman
and not the best way to impress a man.
Who says women are the buyers and men the sellers ?
Maybe its sometimes the other way around.
bogey
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