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2012-09-28 20:48:40 UTC
She walked away 2 and half months ago from what I thought was a good marriage. I don't understand why. She says she wasn't happy and hasn't been for a long time. We have 3 children and we had a house, this happened so suddenly and I had to know why. So for about two months I would text her asking why,no answers,she never answers ,I just wanted her to say something that made sense,,the only thing I could get from her was that she wasn't in love anymore and she wasn't happy ,,mind you a month before we split she was texting Mr how great I was and how she appreciated how I helped her out so much with the kids and the house. Now she won't talk to me,text me,she communicates through the kids. I loved this woman very much and everything I've done the last twenty years has been for her and my family. It seems we have always worked things out through communication,but now there is none.its like she just tossed me out like an old shoe. It's like she is a different person now.
My 15 year old son lives with me and my 13 year old son lives with her. I threatened to keep my 13 year old boy because I didn't like them being split up and now I'm finding out she thinks it could be someone else's from a one night stand with her best friends husband 14 years ago . I was totally devastated when I heard this and totally heartbroken. She has betrayed me, and left and ran and hidden . Hidden from me,hiding from her feelings. I never saw any if this coming and I'm still confused,lonely,heartbroken. The thing with my boy doesn't matter cuz he is my son,I raised him the last thirteen years and I'm the one he calls dad. To make matters worse,she told him he has another dad,and more brothers and sisters. I can't believe what this woman is doing . Why and how could you say something like that to a 13 year old kid. Her failure to communicate and holding her secret for so many years is what drove her away but somehow she makes like it my fault. I've done everything she has ever asked,gave her every dime I ever made, loved her unconditionally . This happened so suddenly and the things I know now are still a shock ,she has me doubting myself,she is confusing our son and I wonder now if I ever really knew her or has she been faking her happiness all these years and cali.g het love for me. This has been the worst two and half months of my life and I'm still struggling with it erspecially when I'm alone . I don't feel I deserve this nor do my kids . I never mistreated this woman and the last twenty years of my life was dedicated to her. Can someone give some advice?? I need all of it I can get. If it wasn't for my faith in god and my love for children,I would have burnt that house down two months ago. I'm a nice guy and its took everything inside me to keep my Kool. I mean I ripped some bushes out of yard and ripped up some pictures and she acts like I've murdered and raped someone. I really don't get it,u really don't .she strung me along for years...and I thought this woman was my soulmate and even after everything I still feel that way and I still love her. Am I crazy or what??
My 15 year old son lives with me and my 13 year old son lives with her. I threatened to keep my 13 year old boy because I didn't like them being split up and now I'm finding out she thinks it could be someone else's from a one night stand with her best friends husband 14 years ago . I was totally devastated when I heard this and totally heartbroken. She has betrayed me, and left and ran and hidden . Hidden from me,hiding from her feelings. I never saw any if this coming and I'm still confused,lonely,heartbroken. The thing with my boy doesn't matter cuz he is my son,I raised him the last thirteen years and I'm the one he calls dad. To make matters worse,she told him he has another dad,and more brothers and sisters. I can't believe what this woman is doing . Why and how could you say something like that to a 13 year old kid. Her failure to communicate and holding her secret for so many years is what drove her away but somehow she makes like it my fault. I've done everything she has ever asked,gave her every dime I ever made, loved her unconditionally . This happened so suddenly and the things I know now are still a shock ,she has me doubting myself,she is confusing our son and I wonder now if I ever really knew her or has she been faking her happiness all these years and cali.g het love for me. This has been the worst two and half months of my life and I'm still struggling with it erspecially when I'm alone . I don't feel I deserve this nor do my kids . I never mistreated this woman and the last twenty years of my life was dedicated to her. Can someone give some advice?? I need all of it I can get. If it wasn't for my faith in god and my love for children,I would have burnt that house down two months ago. I'm a nice guy and its took everything inside me to keep my Kool. I mean I ripped some bushes out of yard and ripped up some pictures and she acts like I've murdered and raped someone. I really don't get it,u really don't .she strung me along for years...and I thought this woman was my soulmate and even after everything I still feel that way and I still love her. Am I crazy or what??