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2012-08-09 01:41:53 UTC
I have been through 2 divorces. Both men were abusive and it took me awhile to get out.
Then I found Bob. He told me about his checkered past, but over 2 years I found him caring, responsible and an all round good guy. AS testified by friends, family, coworkers. My family loved him, now liking him is tough.
He had a stroke before I met him, but was active in landscaping and church. He has some PTSD issue from being in prison all told about 10 years through his 20's. He is in his late 50's now.
He was lost 4 days without food or water. It damamged him physically and emotionally and he is not the same man. He can not work anymore, and has emotional outbursts over small events.
Now I find he is in constant contact with a 29 year old he met at his coffee shop. He now texts that he loves her, and she say back atcha. He hides this, I only found out accidentally, but now I check his phone and doubt him hightly.
I don't know the extent of this relationship, but I don't want to lose my husband. I don't know what to do......Yes, I have talked to himm about it. He denies denies denies.....doesn't do any good.
Then I found Bob. He told me about his checkered past, but over 2 years I found him caring, responsible and an all round good guy. AS testified by friends, family, coworkers. My family loved him, now liking him is tough.
He had a stroke before I met him, but was active in landscaping and church. He has some PTSD issue from being in prison all told about 10 years through his 20's. He is in his late 50's now.
He was lost 4 days without food or water. It damamged him physically and emotionally and he is not the same man. He can not work anymore, and has emotional outbursts over small events.
Now I find he is in constant contact with a 29 year old he met at his coffee shop. He now texts that he loves her, and she say back atcha. He hides this, I only found out accidentally, but now I check his phone and doubt him hightly.
I don't know the extent of this relationship, but I don't want to lose my husband. I don't know what to do......Yes, I have talked to himm about it. He denies denies denies.....doesn't do any good.